Break Your Comfort Zone

 

Break Your Comfort Zone

The life of a human being grows by the uncomfort they can bear. The real happiness of a success can only be feel if we come out of our comfort zones. To remain in the comfort means to remain in the zone of danger. Every person has two choices in their life - either they can chose to grow or they can chose to remain stagnant. It is the fact of the modern society that, maximum people in this world are happy to remain stagnant. They are satisfied with the condition in which they are safe and secure. Most of the human beings fear to come out from the shell of falsehood. They are having the pride on their limited knowledge. They are really unaware of the fact that - stagnant water and stagnant people always get decomposed. The water gets decomposed by the bacteria and germs breeding in it; whereas a human being gets decomposed by the same daily routine they are following. They love to get rot, not by coming out of their comfort zones. These persons get attached with the fascination of the outer world. They fit themselves according to the expectations of other, without knowing their inner potential. Are you one of them? Surely not. You will never chose to be stagnant, you are not going to stop your growing nature. My job is to show you the right way, after all it is your choice. Whether you want to remain in comfort or in discomfort is up to you. Whether you want to become a winner or a looser is up to you. Choice is yours.

Change is the law of nature. To remain a part of this natural society (as you know there is a human society too) you need to keep growing. You need to keep learning, because only the fittest can survive in this environment; and to become the fittest you need to come out from your comfort zones. About 90% of the people kill their dream fearing to face the hardships of change. They just dream to obtain a job and remain happy ever after. Is this for what you also came in this world? Have you came only to perform another person’s slavery. Don’t become a slave of other. There are many ways to achieve your goal, only you need a strong will power and must have the courage to face the discomforts that life will send you.

Our life always want to remain in the comfortable situations. It will knock you at every step, if you start to follow your dream. It does not want to bear the un-comfortable conditions. But, you can’t remain where you are standing now. You can’t be always at the same spot. There is much waiting for you to achieve. The top spot of your dream is calling you. There is no blockage in your way, only you are the biggest hurdle of yours own. Your mind is the terrible dominator, which will show you many reasons for stagnancy, it will try to bound you to walk along the safe road. But, what is the meaning of your life if you don’t take any risk further? Why you are going to repeat the same things daily knowing that you will end up with this? 

Every successful person in his life, bring themselves out of their own comfort zones and threw themselves to the discomfort. They change their habits, to change their future. They never accepted slavery of their mind. Remember, slavery for your mind will lead to slavery for other. Break your nature from inside; destroy your boundary of limitations. Come out from the field of your comfort zone. You are born free, will you end up your life in captivity? Free yourself from the narrow thinking, free yourself from the average life. Rise above your daily routine. Don’t become the stagnant water. No one around you will motivate you for the whole life. You need to inspire yourself for the change. Change must come from inside, to create your future. Robin Sharma has well said “ All changes is hard at first, messy in the middle and so gorgeous at the end.” You will face hardships, you will face challenges, you will get knocked down by your life but after every knock, stand up again and tell your mind that you are not going to quit, you are not going to lose challenges, you are here to achieve the goal whatever hardships may come.

Winners, are always ready to change themselves, not for the society, not for fame, not for money but to announce their presence in this world. To remain in comfort means to kill your potentials. Resigning in comfort zone is easy but accepting the walk through discomfort needs inner courage, self-belief. Leaders don’t accept the easy things, to them struggle is the best option to emerge as a winner. They struggle against their bad habits. They do what they decide, they never relax their mind. Their thinking (negative) can never dominate them. They dominate over their mind, over their thinking by expanding their imagination, by expanding their learning, by expanding their skills. They are having the self-confident to do something great.

The basic difference between a successful and a unsuccessful person, a loser and a winner is that the unsuccessful person like to remain in the comfort as they lack courage to bring changes in their habits. Whereas the successful people also like to remain in comfort, but they never do these, because they don’t want to die like a loser. They install the good habits which are totally different from the losers by constant practicing. They know to throw themselves in the field of uncomfort to emerge as a fittest person. They may receive pain, they may receive struggle, they may be criticized, they may be doubted, but the winners don’t bother, because they know these hardships come to make them the toughest warrior in the battle with their own self. They walk in the path which lead them to the crown of a permanent winner.

Have you ever seen a butterfly coming out of its cocoon. The struggle it makes to come out give it a wonderful change, which gives everyone a pleasure to see. The colorful butterfly comes out from its cocoon by doing struggle, facing hurdles and this make it a wonderful creation of nature. This example shows that, struggle leads to miracle. Same is also with you, after you face the failure, you will emerge as a colorful character. You will emerge as a winner.

Chose to be a winner by mastering all your un-comfort situations rather than becoming a failure by choosing to remain in your comfort zones. Remember, a colorful butterfly gives more pleasure than the caterpillar inside the cocoon.